i’ve procrastinated all my life and got by but now it’s getting to the stage i’m probably genuinely fucking up my future
Tag: accurate
nothing worse than your social anxiety getting mistaken for rudeness
pRESSIGN THE SEND BUTTON BEFORE U FINISH THE MESSAGE
WHEN YOU GO TO DRAW A MALE CHARACTER BUT THEN YOU REALIZE YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO DRAW MALE ANATOMY
WHEN YOU GO TO DRAW A FEMALE CHARACTER BUT THEN YOU REALIZE YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO DRAW FEMALE ANATOMY
WHEN YOU GO TO DRAW BUT THEN REALIZE YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO DRAW
“I’m gonna draw my OTP doing cute stuffs!!!!”
then anatomy comes along and punches you in the face
I always get so nervous when I’m reading a super long fic and the two characters get together like really early on
there’s so much fic left
what’s gonna happen
is it gonna hurt me
TIMED MISSIONS IN GAMES
ESCORT MISSIONS IN GAMES
trying to draw the body more like
there is a difference between enjoying shota and enjoying pedophilia/child molestation
there is a difference between enjoying rape fantasy/roleplay and enjoying actual rape
there is a difference between enjoying fictional abusive relationships and enjoying real abusive relationships
there is a difference between fantasy and reality and your enjoyment of fantasy can be healthy, and in some cases it can be a therapeutic way of dealing with real trauma in a safe, fictional outlet from a distance.
some rape victims enjoy roleplaying rape or molestation in fantasy situations because it allows them control over the very thing they didn’t have control over before.
it’s when you cross the boundary into reality or have thoughts of bringing these kinks into reality that it becomes dangerous, unhealthy, and you should seek help to control these thoughts or behaviours.
all that being said, you shouldn’t be surprised if rape survivors are creeped out by your rape kink, or child abuse survivors don’t want to see your shota posts, and there’s no reasons to get defensive about it. it’s not “kink-shaming,” it’s people being made uncomfortable/potentially triggered. just make sure you tag everything properly and respect the boundaries of others.
reblogging those “send me asks!!” posts and having nobody come into your askbox is like holding up your hand for a high-five in a crowd and everyone ignoring you until you slowly put your hand down and press ‘delete post’




